I look around and wonder why do people look at a married woman differently?
She might look better dressed, maybe wearing an ornament or two, that mark her married. But she’s still a girl at heart; sindoor and bindi don’t make her a woman. She may still be learning how to run a home; she still might be struggling to taking care of not just herself but two or more people.
She might not always like to hear ‘what does your husband do ?’…
Marriage doesn’t suddenly turn a girl into a woman.
For that matter having kids
doesn’t necessarily do the same either.
Celebrate who she really is;
celebrate the child in her; she may be anyone around you, ur friend, ur sister, ur mother, a total stranger.
She’s not supposed to be responsible for innumerous things, countless chores; it’s just her desire for perfection
that she does what she does.
This is for every wonderful woman I know.
Grow up… but take your own sweet time & let the li’l girl in you live forever.
And for all my male friends… cherish her, love her and most importantly let her be… She wasn’t born to take care of you, it’s her heart that makes her do so